A while back I requested the guys to tell me what they wanted me to write about. Here is response to a mutual friend of Nat & La who has pretended to be a man in order to comment on that past post.
In response to your concerns, my suggestion would be to shave off the neck scruff. And when you do, eat some raisins. Don’t let your girlfriend’s barber friends shave it off. Keep in mind you lose a lot of heat from your neck and keeping that wooly neck scruff might do you some good when you need to lend your lady your jacket.